Solo Travel: Learning to Walk Alone
Solo travel isn’t about being alone.
It’s about finally hearing yourself without the noise of the world.
For a long time, I believed travel needed company — someone to plan with, share costs, take photos, and fill silences. But life doesn’t always wait for perfect alignment. And one day, neither did I.
That was the day I chose to travel solo.
Why I Chose to Travel Alone
It wasn’t a bold decision. It was a quiet one.
During my college days, I planned many trips, but most of them never happened. Sometimes my friends were not ready, sometimes schedules didn’t match, and sometimes there was simply no one to go with.
I was living in Pune, surrounded by beautiful places and historic forts built by Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj, yet not single plan was executed.
One day, I got tired of cancelling and waiting. That’s when I decided to travel solo for the first time, and I went alone to Lohagad Fort.
I was tired of postponing journeys because plans didn’t match, leaves didn’t align, or people backed out. Places like Hampi, Longest South Trip, Somnath, and ancient temples had lived in my mind for years — not as destinations, but as experiences waiting to be felt.
Solo travel felt intimidating at first. But the thought of not going felt heavier.
So I packed light, booked my ticket, and went.
Essentials to Carry
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Lightweight backpack
Carry only what you need — a small, comfortable backpack is perfect for solo travel. -
Important documents
Keep ID, tickets, hotel confirmations, and travel insurance both digitally and physically. -
Eating
Carry energy bars for travelling alone. -
Essential for phones
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✔ Carry power bank — it’s a must
✔ Charger for your devices
✔ Earphones — both wired and wireless, if necessary -
Weather-appropriate clothing
Pack light layers, rain protection, or warm clothes depending on your destination. -
Comfort items
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✔ Travel pillow if it is long journey
✔ Eye mask and Face Mask
✔ shawl can make long journeys easier -
Basic beauty & hygiene products
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✔ Toothbrush with brush holder, toothpaste and soap
✔ Hand sanitizer, sunscreen if travelling in summer, lip balm
✔ Deodorant -
Medication & first-aid kit
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✔ Regular medicines
✔ pain relief
✔ motion sickness tablets
✔ band-aids.
Precautions to Take
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Stay aware of surroundings
Solo travelers should be alert in crowded areas, stations, or unfamiliar neighborhoods. -
Share your itinerary
Inform a trusted friend or family member about your plans and check in regularly. -
Keep money & valuables safe
Always carry cash and Use a hidden pouch or secure backpack to avoid theft. -
Choose safe transport & stays
Prefer well-reviewed accommodations and reliable transport options. -
Trust your instincts
If a place or situation feels unsafe, leave immediately. -
Don’t over-schedule
Solo travel is about experience, not ticking boxes. Allow flexibility and downtime.
What Solo Travel Taught Me
1. Comfort with Silence
When you travel alone, silence follows you — on buses, at sunrise points, inside temples.
At first, it feels awkward. Then it becomes peaceful.
Silence teaches you to observe:
- the rhythm of a city
- the sound of temple bells
- your own thoughts slowing down
2. Freedom Has a Different Meaning
Solo travel means:
- waking up without alarms
- changing plans without discussions
- spending hours at one place just because it feels right
There’s no pressure to “cover everything.”
You don’t rush. You experience.
3. You Trust Yourself More
From asking directions to navigating unfamiliar streets, solo travel builds quiet confidence.
You learn that:
- it’s okay to get lost
- it’s okay to sit alone in a café
- it’s okay to choose rest over sightseeing
Every small decision becomes your own.
Traveling alone teaches you to make decisions without hesitation. For example, I could stand by the waves early in the morning, watching them roll in, without any rush or hurry to catch up with a group..
The Emotional Side of Traveling Alone
Not every moment is poetic.
There are evenings when loneliness arrives uninvited. There are moments when you wish someone was there to share a view.
But those emotions don’t weaken the journey — they deepen it.
Solo travel doesn’t remove loneliness; it teaches you to sit with it, understand it, and move beyond it.
Solo Travel in India: A Special Experience
India, with all its chaos and color, can feel overwhelming — but it also embraces solo travelers in unexpected ways.
- Strangers offer help without asking
- Temple towns slow you down naturally
- Conversations happen effortlessly on trains and buses
You may arrive alone, but you’re rarely treated like one.
Safety & Mindful Travel (A Few Honest Tips)
Solo travel isn’t about being fearless — it’s about being aware.
- Trust your instincts
- Respect local culture and customs
- Travel light and stay alert
- Share your itinerary with someone back home
- Choose experiences over speed
Being mindful makes solo travel empowering, not risky.
Who Should Try Solo Travel?
You should try solo travel if:
- you’ve been waiting too long for the “right time”
- you want to reconnect with yourself
- you want experiences, not checklists
- you’re okay growing a little uncomfortable to grow stronger
You don’t need to be brave. You just need to begin.
Final Thoughts
Solo travel isn’t about escaping people.
It’s about meeting yourself in unfamiliar places.
Some journeys change your location.
Solo journeys change your perspective.
And once you take that first step alone, you realize —
you were never really alone to begin with.
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